Tuesday, June 8, 2010

We are all still alive!

Wow! It's been over a month since I have posted anything! Things have been busy around the Durham home lately. As we are all aware school is out and summer is in full force! The children's behavior has really been so much better since they have been home, which is definitely welcomed! :) Little Mr. Gage has really enjoyed having his siblings home too. He's so cute. So what's on the agenda for this summer? I'm glad you asked...first off we are still waiting to hear back from good old Bank of America on the home we put an offer in. Supposedly they have everything they need and we are just waiting for them to close. We definitely have been learning patience through this process. Second off we have implemented our homeschool trial period for the summer. We do school everyday, except for Sunday, for about 3 hours. So far so good. I was shocked at how much they didn't know. For example, Michelle does not know her numbers, and both Mason and Michelle have trouble identifying lowercase letters. So we have been doing a lot of review of numbers and letters. After three years of preschool I find this kind of crazy, but I have to remind myself that it is not her fault and we just need to make progress. We have started working on reading the BOB books. Michelle can read the first two of them all by herself and Mason has no interest in learning to read. I think because it takes so much focus that this is going to be a challenge for him. He is, however, really good at putting the letters in order and saying their sounds. Saige and Gage also sit in with us while we do counting, reading, and phonics. Last week I introduced the "+" and "=" sign along with addition. When reviewing them yesterday I was happily surprised at how much they remembered and they even did an addition worksheet! It is so rewarding to see them learn and the pride that they have as well! We have really been praying hard and contemplating on what is the best thing to do for each one of the children. I have felt so at peace with our decision to homeschool them. I know that we have and will continue to receive criticism from others but quite frankly this is not their choice to make. We are entitled to revelation for our family and trust me we have received it! It still kind of freaks me out that we are doing this, but I have learned on numerous occasions to trust in my Heavenly Father and whatever His plan is. I am so grateful and humbled at the opportunity that I have to be the mother to these four amazing children. I love them so much and still cannot believe that I have been entrusted with them. Talk about an overwhelming responsibility! Yikes!!! Anyhow, I am rambling on now but just wanted to document what we've been up to and how things are going!

4 comments:

Courtney said...

Glad to see you are all doing well. Sorry to here about the delay of the house, been there done that and it wasn't much fun. I also learned to be patient which was not easy!

Camie Walworth said...

short sales stink!!! So glad it seems to be moving in the right direction...good luck with homeschool...your kids are so lucky!! Way to be in tune and follow your mama heart!!

Chris and Michelle said...

Glad to hear that you're doing well! I think you are great for homeschooling, Rae Lynn! If anyone can do it, you certainly can & you have to do what is best for your fam! I would seriously consider it too if I lived in AZ... (& I know you are doing it for more reasons than I would be..)
There are a bunch of "high profile" preschools 5 minutes from where we live, but I am putting Parker in a preschool next fall that is a pretty good drive from our house...he has some social needs that I don't feel will be addressed at the closer preschools. I am getting a lot of flack for this decision, but heck - I like you - am going to do what is best for my child and what I feel good about! :)
You're such a great mom Rae Lynn!
Good luck with the house situation and have a fun summer!

Amber said...

I'm so excited for you guys! Who cares what others say - if that's what Heavenly Father wants you to do for your family - you'd be silly not to do it! Kade and I receive criticism for his job as well, especially after our car accident last year, yet I would rather follow Heavenly Father than people who don't understand the situation and just like to hear themselves talk - haha, GOOD LUCK! And I used to tutor all the time in high school and college (even after for a while), so if you need some tips/tricks that worked for me, let me know - but I'm still not released to work, so I can't go back to that yet... Have fun!!